Living Above Your Adult Child’s Addiction

Parents of addicts travel a road few can understand – the pain of their adult child’s addiction. We are shoved onto the Roller Coaster From Hell with our codependent enabler Beast at the controls. As time goes on, we lose ourselves, and some of us head straight into self-destruct mode.

I spent years living my daughter, Jamie’s addiction until I was heartbroken, helpless, and living in paralyzing fear.

Sometimes our lowest points can be the most significant. For me, it was in my darkest days that I decided to stand up and fight for my life, and you can too!

Grief, pain, and the trauma of their addiction are real, but they don’t have to own you.

Stand up and fight that Codependent Enabler Beast and start Living Above the Addiction. This complimentary course with Guidebook and audio can help you reclaim your life, and be a role model for your adult child and the other people in your life.


By reclaiming your life, you give others hope.

Monette Hopkins

“Grief is debilitating and on top of the depression I thought I was doomed. When I joined Valerie’s group I found a glimmer of hope. I have worked really hard and I see so much change in me and my 3 grandsons.”

Jessica McCurdy

’I’m so grateful for your voice, the power behind your voice, your conviction, your strength, your knowledge, and your energy to keep sharing these truths – these things you have learned and have walked through. Your courage, strength, and hope.

You may not be able to control your loved one’s addiction Beast, but you can stand up to yours.

Valerie Silveira  | Trauma Disruptor & Legacy Leader™ is an award-winning author of multiple books, workbooks, and journals to guide people worldwide through the path to freedom. She is known as a woman of unwavering strength who, through the trauma and lessons of her daughter’s addiction and her senseless murder, along with her decades of leadership, empowers others to stand up and live courageously. Valerie’s books, workbooks, journals, and 9 Weapons of Hope™ provide hope and healing for life’s many challenges. For information on the courses, books, and speaking programs, visit

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