9 Weapons of Hope™

Many things get us down, but we don’t have to stay there.

I spent 13 years riding the Roller Coaster From Hell as my daughter, Jamie, suffocated under the weight of her addiction Beast. Mine nearly destroyed me.

*The 9 Weapons of Hope™

are what I used to disrupt the trauma I was re-living and to reclaim my life at my very lowest point. Link arms with me and learn to stand up and use your traumatic experiences as fuel for good.

*Only available as part of our Memberships

The 9 Weapons of Hope™ 

2 Levels Available! The Foundations version is a pared down version of the full Arsenal.


9 Individual Courses

Each Weapon includes a guidebook and videos, progress tracking, and more! The full Arsenal (available at the Warriors in Hope and Legacy Leader levels) is very robust with many modules and actionable tools, while the Foundations version (available with the Still Standing Level) contains the core concepts for each Weapon.

Weapons of Hope™ Guidebooks

Each Weapon Guidebook is a combination of Weapon insight and a Workbook.

Module Guidance Via Video

Individual videos with more insight and guidance from Valerie.

Reusable Resource

Come back and use the course when you are off-track, need a refresher, or a jumpstart.
Lifetime Membership
One Price with Lifetime access* to the 9 Weapons of Hope™ Membership.

*As long as the programs are available.

Audio Version

Use the audio version of the videos for convenience and further reinforcement of message. (Available on certain Membership levels.)

You’re in one of the most stressful and lonely places you can be: navigating through the guilt and grief of your child’s addiction, loss, betrayal, or some other traumatic experience.

Not only has trauma affected you to your very core, but you also feel beaten down by the lingering beasts. And they are holding you back from living a life of joy and freedom.

I hear you, and I feel you…and I’ve been there – ultimately losing my daughter to a senseless murder that shattered my life….but sent me on a new transformational path.

When our Beasts get bigger, so does the need for a voice to fight them. We are that voice.

It’s time to set yourself free. Discover your 9 Weapons of Hope™ to help you Disrupt Trauma for Good™.

 This is your moment. You’re not alone. We can do this together!

Monette Hopkins

“The 9 Weapons of Hope have changed my life. I am back in the workforce and I have learned self-care. I use the 9 Weapons to fight the Beast and I get up stronger each time. We deserve a good life and we are the only ones who can give that to ourselves.”

Dianne Chatelain

“Once I decided that I didn’t want to be sad and miserable all the time, and walking around like a zombie just going through the motions of life, while it just kept passing me by, it changed my life! Now I immerse myself in MY recovery.”

Want to Learn More About Each Weapon?

Click the Weapon Icon Below for more information!

Thank you Valerie. You saved my life.


If you find yourself in a cage, the 9 Weapons of Hope™ can be the combination to unlock that cage and set yourself free.


Your Story Matters…Live It Courageously!

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